2014 has decided to come in
with a bang, or shall I say a Polar Vortex? Being a transplant from Southern
California I am not sure my body will ever get use to the normal cold that
January in the Mid-Atlantic can offer. However this Polar Vortex thing is
enough to make this girl rethink her geographical choices.
A New Year brings New Year’s
Resolutions right? No, I hopped of the resolution express a long time ago. Why create
more pressure in my life? I was already very accomplished at doing that without
resolutions adding more. Why set myself
up for failure? So several years back I tweaked my thinking after being hard on
myself for not sticking to my resolutions, and started focusing on goals I
wanted to accomplish in the new year. At the end of the year I would check back
to see what I goals I accomplished and those I had not, what I learned over the
course of the year and set new goals for the upcoming year.
So let’s take a look back on
my 2013 Goals:
1) Set personal bests (PBs)
in two half marathons (√ & √)
2) Hit the gym or run at least 3xs per week
(√)
3) Take French classes (√)
4) Taking cooking classes to improve my
culinary skills (√)
5) Travel to a place I have not been to (√)
6) Don’t be so hard on/Cut myself some slack (half √)
7) Buy a home (swing and a miss)
With the exception of 7 and well maybe 6… I
can give myself half credit on 6. I checked off most of my goals for 2013. Gold
Star!!!
What did 2013 teach me? It taught me how to
shift my focus and find things that stretched my abilities and learn new skills
that would enrich my personal life (French lessons, culinary classes, PBs and
traveling) instead of focusing on just my career. 2013 also taught me, once
again, to embrace serendipity that life throws at you. Something good will come
of it whether it is an adventure, a new skill or new friends added to your
life.
The one and half goals not accomplished are a
little harder to explain. The purchase of a new home… well let’s just chalk
that up to the year got away from me. The “Don’t be so hard on/cut myself some slack” goal almost wound up in
the not accomplished heap. I have the duo of bad habits of over scheduling
myself and over estimating how much I can get done in a given time period. I do
not factor in breathing room, so one mishap and my to-do list can easily
derail. Instead of adjusting things I still try and do everything and when that
fails, well cue the self-scolding. I was on the express train to self-scolding
over holiday cards this past December. But
a moment of clarity and encouraging words from a few friends, just as I was
about to beat myself for not planning ahead and getting my holiday cards
created and mailed well before the holidays, helped me refocus. I took a deep
breath logged on to the website where I create my cards and found the New
Year’s templates that helped me achieve my goal of sending out cards to friends
and family while buying me about two weeks more time to create them and send
them out.
What are the goals for 2014? well the goals
and half not accomplished last year are at the top of the list.
1) Buy a home.
2) Continue to break the habit of being too
tough on myself.
3) Continue my French lessons and cultivating
my culinary skills.
4) Participate in 3 half marathons (two are
already picked and I am registered).
5) Travel to a place I have not been before.
6) Be consistent in posting to this site.
7) Improve my photography skills (I will
master manual mode!!!)
Check back in December and see what I can
check off!
